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Interactions with the Dommes

 
Since the object of this group is not necessarily for a Mistress to meet a potential partner, or vice versa, your marital status is not an issue. The ability to be available for the parties and training IS an issue. Training is usually on Saturdays and involves a full day, or two half days. Teas are usually on Sunday afternoons with some teas being scheduled on Saturday afternoons. If you cannot be available on these days, then please don't waste our time by applying. We don't have midweek training, nor will we send out your name to our members who might want to take advantage of your "other" talents. This is a tea society, not a dating service or singles bar

If you are owned, your Mistress MUST give written or oral permission for you to take the training and serve at the teas

If  it should happen that a Mistress desires to speak to you, the training Mistress will arrange for the two of you to speak after your duties are completed, or during a break when you are not otherwise needed. If you are interested in meeting a particular Mistress, you may tell the training Mistress who will convey your request for a conversation to the Mistress in question. If the lady in question is interested, and ONLY then, the training Mistress will set up an opportunity for you to speak with the Mistress. Please bear in mind that meeting someone at one of these parties is not the primary function. If meeting a Mistress is your only goal, please do NOT apply. It has happened that a Lady seeks further contact with a server she has met at a tea, but it is by no means certain that this is going to happen. You may keep in mind that most people tend to enter relationships with people whom they know

Other Qualifications
You must also pass a face to face interview with one or two of the Ladies. The Ladies will decide whether they feel that you are a suitable candidate. Physical appeal is NOT what they are looking for. Do not send photos with your initial application. The qualities of submissiveness and willingness to serve are the important ones. Your looks are NOT a primary consideration. Further qualifications
  • First and foremost, good health. We don't want you coughing over our food.
  • Secondly, a measure of grace and familiarity with common household skills.
  • Thirdly, the ability to learn quickly and well.
  • Fourthly, a skill such as facial, manicure/pedicure or massage is a big plus.
  • Fifthly, the ability to refrain from gossip and to maintain confidentiality regarding what they may hear at the Tea.
  • Sixthly, the willingness to be a table or footstool if such is required of you, IF it is required.
  • Seventhly, the willingness to serve ALL the Ladies, lesbian, bisexual, heterosexual, submissive, vanilla, and full-time transgendered. We will not put up with your prejudices.
  • Lastly, you must be over 21, no exceptions except servers who are the personal property of a Lady on the list. Do not bother writing that you want to be owned. As stated before, we are not a dating service.